How To Get Girls – Tips For Approaching Women
every Friday night, millions of dudes around the world, from New Jersey to Tokyo, splash on their cologne and head to the nightclubs in the hopes of meeting women. Of course, they might act like they’re only stepping out for a few drinks with their friends, but a lot of them are really looking to get lucky that evening with a girl.
And that’s where they make their first error: thinking of seduction in terms of “getting lucky.” The vast majority of dudes really believe that scoring with a woman at a bar is about luck, fate, or being in the right place at the right time.
Guys like these don’t understand that when it comes to how to approach women in bars, there are particular “classic errors” that men make all the time — screwing up their chances without even being aware of it — and that there are reliable STRATEGIES you can make use of to just about guarantee strong results.
For one guy, “success” might mean meeting an interesting chick and going home with a phone number. But for guys who’ve perfected their approach and conversation skills, success is defined another way.
Ask them what their goals are when they go out to the bar, and they’ll say that anything short of a “same night lay” — bringing a babe home with them TONIGHT — is a wasted evening.
The obstacle is that more than 90% of guys have no idea how to approach girls and generate attraction. And they’re too scared to approach women because of the large amount of UNCERTAINTY that is part of it.
Give this some thought for a second. What runs through your head when see a girl at a bar that you would LOVE to talk to? You might be thinking…
“A girl THAT beautiful must already have a boyfriend.”
“She doesn’t look like she’s in the mood to be approached.”
“I’m probably not her type.”
Or, the common male excuse…
“I want to talk to her, but I have no idea what to say!”
What’s really going on here is that you are only thinking about the possible NEGATIVE outcomes. This is because you’ve conditioned yourself to believe that the most likely outcome, when you approach women in bars, is that women won’t want to talk to you.
For dudes who don’t know how to get girls, this usually IS the conclusion. And after going through this awkward process dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, these guys stop trying to talk to girls in bars completely.
They figure, “why bother? She’s only going to respond the way the last 1 girls did. She won’t be interested for whatever reason, and then I’ll have to undergo the humiliation of walking away and feeling like a reject.”
I’m here to tell you that you can learn how to approach girls in a way that is confident, playful and most of all STRATEGIC. There are some awesome, specific “openers” you can utilize with hot chicks that will make them smile, and engage their interest.
We’ve tried out every one of these techniques out in the field hundreds of times, to make sure these are the very top ways to “break the ice” and initiate an interaction.
Girls WON’T see you as some clumsy, insecure guy who is hoping to NOT get rejected. Rather, women will straight away sense that you’re a person who can add MORE FUN to their night.
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